The fog here plays your own arguments back at you. Something lives in it — a beast made entirely of tangled thread and old sentences. Travelers who fight it get bigger fights. There is another way through. Find it.
The beast has noticed you. Choose how you meet it.
It was never a monster. It was a knot — the same six sentences, pulled tighter every year. You didn’t beat it. You unraveled it: you named the fear under the words, you got on the same team as the person instead of the argument, you said one boundary and then stopped talking.
That’s the whole method. It works on people too. It’s called C4, it lives in The Art of Difficult Conversations, and the two-minute version is free with your Position Report.
— G.